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Even very well theoretically trained students often put completely simple situations in a dead end, which were not thought out in advance. For example, what to do with hands, wipe with chalk, or whether to let into the class of late student with the remark about the late, or refrain from it; How often can be peased in the lesson plan; Stand or sit in class?

Our professional image is made up of our appearance (face, clothing), the features of our non-verbal behavior (poses, gestures, facial expressions), speech behavior and communication skills.

I will start the discussion of the image from the appearance of the teacher and, above all, from the clothes - the business card of each person.

Speaking about clothes, you should first say two words about the modern situation at school.

The "democratization" of school life has led not only to the abolition of school uniform, but also brought an avalanche inappropriate, uncomfortable, often just vulgar clothing in school life.

For the school and the learning process, the question of what the teachers and students are not harmless. The lack of school form in today's bundle of society and different levels of the material state of families, forms a poorly dressed student not only the feeling of envy, but also reduces its self-esteem. Children do not teach to wear relevant clothes. The theory that you have to wear such clothes that you are comfortable, without taking into account everything else, can only be used in everyday life. But what concerns the sphere of business relations, and the school is part of this sphere, it is strong enough to regulate all over the world.

Teacher's clothes are even greater psychological burden. First, neatly, purely and tastefully dressed teacher raises the same qualities in students.

Secondly, the clothing of the teacher can distract attention during the lesson, undermining the learning process.

Thirdly, heavily tight, overly open and short, as well as transparent clothing can generate sexy fantasies in the heads and experiences instead of understanding and memorizing the educational material. That is, the wrong dressed teacher can generate a lot of pedagogical problems that will have to solve not one day.

A.S. Makarenko in the speech in 1939, entitled "My Pedagogical Reviews," said: "We need a small monograph on such a topic as the influence of a teacher's costume on the nature of students, the influence of the Mimician teacher on the education of the character of students."

So what to wear on the lesson? It is necessary to proceed from the fact that the style of the teacher's clothing should be business.

Businesswear should be a negligence, well-sewn and high quality. It is better to look at suits and shirts for men and blouses for women.

In the warm season, women teachers better use blouses and skirts, not dresses. In addition, the first to give preference in the business style of clothing, dresses have one unpleasant feature. When writing on the board, the dress usually begins to rise after the hand raised and from under it can be seen underwear. Such a situation usually traumats teachers, makes them remember that clothes can bring, and makes their movements fiddle and unnatural.

Schools are not recommended to school and sleeveless and too short skirts. Pants in our schools have not yet become familiar clothing for teachers, so if in your school none of the teachers walk in trousers, you better not use them not to attract special attention to your clothes.

The color scheme of your clothing can vary depending on age, hair and skin color. But at the same time, try to avoid red, yellow, green and other bright colors that create "color spots", all the time annoying the visual analyzer and interfere with focus on educational material.

American psychologists have statistically determined that for business clothes are preferred are black and white, dark gray, blue colors, rust color (orange-brown). It is equal to the men's and women's clothing.

Poorly perceived in the business style clothing ornament from flowers and a large cage. Completely unacceptable transparent fabrics through which the underwear shines.

Inappropriate look openwork, white or black stockings or tights. They should be beige, tanning colors or slightly smoky and fit the color of clothes and shoes. Men's socks should be monophonic and fit the color of the shoes.

Shoes should be flawlessly clean, comfortable and elegant. It is unacceptable to conduct a lesson in boots or pantalets. Justification, which is very cold or hot, inappropriate. No artist will be on the scene in boots or slippers (except that it is supposed to be role). The same is the teacher. The only difference is that the teacher falls for a long time, sometimes all 45 minutes, standing in keeping a static pose. With unaccustomed, the entire lesson in high heels is extremely difficult. And it is almost impossible if the shoes are new and unwarked.

Getting ready to go on a lesson, try not to wear a new one, never undressed clothes. If you have acquired a new costume, go to visit it first, in the park or just to the store. You must get used to new sensations from new clothes in advance. Otherwise, it can significantly affect your well-being and behavior in the lesson.

The new teacher's clothing has another feature. She may take possession of the disciples that spoil the whole lesson. Experienced teachers enjoy one cunning. Come in a new suit or dress to school, they enter "in the case" to the class before the call, make small things there, giving the opportunity to consider themselves from all sides. And then the call comes into class and calmly lead a lesson. You can also take advantage of this technique.

Speaking about clothes, it is especially necessary to stay on accessories. Business style involves the absence of jewelry, and if decorations are used, only from noble metals (gold, silver, platinum) and natural stones. The ideal option is the presence of hours (on hand or hanging on a chain) and a smooth wedding ring.

If you wear earrings, you need to stay on small, do not hang around earrings. Hanging earrings will move in the tact of your head movements. And if they are also shiny, then the attention of students can be a whole lesson to be riveted to these moving brilliant objects.

The same can be said about hanging bracelets, and numerous chains. They need to be excluded, because They are not consistent with a business style. In the choice of your accessories, follow the principle: good taste is when in a suit nothing can be taken away, and not add.

Accessories also include bags. Better if you enjoy a neat briefcase or case, in which things are laid out in different compartments, and do not look for a pen or notebook, and spend time. Completely unacceptable large, unknown appointments of the bags in which various items are stored ahead, including products purchased on the road. Polyethylene packages and small bags-Ridiculi are also excluded.

Accessories can also be attributed to glasses. Points should be accurately chosen to face features and should not distract from the facial expressions and express your eyes. Rubbing should be fine. Points must be fitted so that they do not move with the movements of the head, they did not slip down and did not bother anywhere. Otherwise, you will have to constantly correct them, which distracts students, and the teacher himself.

Tarmets have great importance. A.S. Makarenko wrote: "A tutor who pulls out a black crumpled scroll from his pocket," this is no longer an educator "the handkerchief must be flawlessly clean and smooth. It can be infected with your ordinary spirits.

If you use one-time scarves, make sure that you will be thrown out after use. The way you use the nose should be rehearsed at home. Remember that children, especially small, can imitate you even in this. Get in front of the mirror so that your manipulations with the nose handkerchief were aesthetic.

The tool of powerful impact on students is the face of the teacher. This "tool" must be learned to be perfectly owned, be able to manage very accurately. People specially not prepared usually not aware of the expression of their face. This is due to the fact that the Mimic muscles have little nerve endings, and their weak impulses should be learn to perceive.

When our face is in a calm state, the Mimic muscles are relaxed and our face sometimes takes expression inappropriate in a specific situation of communication (for example, the corners of the lips and the face takes a displeased or offended expression).

In standard situations of communication, standard expressions of persons from its participants are assumed. For example, the seller's expression must be respectful and helpful, the doctor must have a separate or empathic face. Psychologists call such standard expressions of people masks. The psychological value of the mask is very high. On the one hand, its presence allows it to be personally not to be involved in a specific situation of communication, preserving mental energy.

A.S. Makarenko said about this: "The teacher can not do not play. There can be no teacher who would not know how to play. It is impossible to allow our nerves to be a pedagogical tool, one cannot assume that we can bring up children with our help. Cardiac torments, the torment of our soul. After all, we are people. And if in any other specialty you can do without mental suffering, then we need to do it. "

On the other hand, the teacher, as well as from any person, there is a lot of everyday problems. Mask allows you to "disable" these problems and related emotions as not related to educational and educational processes, to communicate with students.

What should be the teacher's mask? The teacher's face must be friendly interested. The student has an expression of the teacher's face must create the impression that he is waiting and wants to communicate with him. Such an expression of a person creates a setting that what happens in the lesson in the teacher himself is interesting and important, and therefore should be interesting and important to students.

"Make" your face in accordance with the professional standard is not easy. You will have to be often suited in front of the mirror to learn how to give your face the desired expression.

First, learn how to make the face "open." It should not have wrinkles, testifying to your concern (reduced eyebrows and wrinkles on the nose, tightly compressed lips or lowered corners of the lips and the corresponding wrinkles around them). Get such a facial expression so that you are exactly sure, you look at the mirror with a content life, a confident and calm person. If you have achieved such an expression of the face, the next step will be to create an expression of interest and goodwill. Make a look interested. Imagine that the person looks at you from the mirror that you really like and your view will surely take the right expression. Make sure that the outer corners of the eyebrows are not raised. Otherwise, an expression of interest is replaced by an expression of surprise. Looking at the student, remember that the look should be time to periodically. Usually we look at the interlocutor of 30 seconds. A close fixed look in the animal world is considered the first sign of aggressive behavior. People who look closely, are also nervous.

Friendly expression will pass your lips. Lift their corners slightly. If you have achieved the desired result, say, causing the desired facial expression at different times.

Working on the mask, pay attention to how you express surprise, doubt, consent and other emotions. Press the expression of the face gesture. Try to repeat the same in different versions. Choose from them the most successful. These exercises are useful to do not only before the mirror, but also with fellow students. Discuss to each other what you do.

The use of cosmetics is closely related to facial expression. Everyone has been known from orphanage that the actors with the help of makeup can completely transform them, they are sometimes difficult to know. But these simple observations, young teachers do not take into account, imposing cosmetics on their own face. When the eyes are summed up, the face, often takes a predatory expression, and, for example, a bright lipstick is so striking that the rest of the rest is not visible behind bright lips.

Business etiquette places its requirements and makeup. Cosmetics should be lightweight, pastel tones, almost imperceptible. Of course, the color scheme should depend on the type and color of your skin, eye, hair. But there are several axioms that cannot be neglected. First, bright tones of Rumyan and lipstick, as well as highly darkened eyebrows will be your face and make it rude. Secondly, eyeliner of the eye, lower or both of the eyelids changes the expression of your face, visually increasing, reducing your eyes or changing their shape. Thirdly, multi-layer makeup (superimposed one on another layers of a masking pencil, tonal cream and powder) make the face unnatural like a doll.

Lesson to the young teacher is usually associated with emotional and nervous tension. You may have a blush, you can stand. What will happen to your makeup on a tricky face? In addition, a nervous teacher, not realizing himself, is often touched to the face. So that your cosmetics is not smeared, it should be a little bit.

But teachers would like to advise men before the lesson slightly swim their face. The color of the powder must be chosen to your skin. The pitched face does not shine from sweat and looks more aesthetically.

Now about hairstyle. Of course, it must match your face, age and reflect your individuality. Of course, it must be neat. It really should be hairstyle, and not just loose hair. You must take into account that teachers have to be tilted over the seated student or his notebook. In this case, your hair can get into his face. This is not aesthetically and can cause a feeling of squeamishness from the student.

Hair must be combed so that your face is open and nothing distracted from his expression. Of course, your hair should be natural and alive. But the teacher must be sure that everything is in order and can not worry about it. Therefore, it is quite appropriate to use hair varnish or other fixing means (better if they are odorless).

Since we started about cosmetics, we must say two words about the hands. No one is in doubt that hands should be clean with well-kept nails. Business etiquette prescribes women to wear nails of medium length, oval shape and cover them light, (but in tone lipstick), color. Pale pink, telny, light beige. Invalid false nails in the business atmosphere.

Women at home are engaged in household and often wound their hands. If you have happened such a trouble, make it possible, an unlime sticker from the leucoplasty. And if you broke the nail, try to make all the nails of the same length.

The doctor's etiquette prescribes that his hands should always be dry and warm. Also, the requirement should be attributed to the hands of the teacher. Of course, we do not touch our students as often as doctors, but if this happens, the feeling of our hands should be enjoyable.

The appearance of the teacher complements the smell. This is a very serious aspect of your appearance. In recent years, psychologists are actively developing the theory of smells and made very interesting conclusions. Smells, even practically elusive, unconsciously affect our behavior, causing sympathy or antipathy to a person, forcing it to evaluate it differently, cause various emotional states. It should be added to this that a huge number of modern children suffer from allergies. Therefore, in the choice of cosmetic smells, the teacher should be especially careful and attentive.

If you use a deodorant with a smell, give up spirits or toilet water. The latter will be appropriate only when using a deodorant odorless. Cosmetic firms usually use the same smell for all their cosmetics. If you use cosmetics of the same company, then the problem of compatibility of odors is solved by itself. But the intensity of odors you must regulate ourselves. The smell should be lightweight, barely distinguishable. For the business situation, sweet, spicy, strenuous smells are categorically not suitable.

Introduction

The tasks of the workshop and the principles of its construction. Profession
The national activity of the teacher of modern general education
Schools are complex and multifaceted. The teacher performs the functions of
the feeder of the younger generations, organizes the training and
educational socially useful activities of students,
Mails participation in promoting socio-political and psychological
Pedagogical knowledge among parents of students and adults
population.

As a teacher, the teacher constantly faces a diversity
different pedagogical situations when it is required
a deep understanding of their socio-psychological meaning,
To independently make a decision. And for this, along with the depth
Bokym knowledge of the educational subject, the teacher needs psycho-
Logo-pedagogical knowledge, P in particular the knowledge of psychological
Particularities of students in different age groups, regular
Steens and conditions for optimizing the process of their training and education
In accordance with the requirements of the main directions of reform
general education and vocational school. These tasks
and serves a course of age and pedagogical psychology.

Practice shows that deep assimilation of students
Ca age and pedagogical psychology is impossible without self-
standing on literary sources, without having
Dénia skills and skills of pedagogical communication with children,
methods of psychological observation of them and
psychological experiments. Students - Future Teachers
should be able to apply the knowledge of modern psychology when
Sew pedagogical learning and education tasks.

This workshop consists of three sections: I- "General
questions "; II- "Age Psychology"; III- "Pedagogical
psychology". In each section, in accordance with the program
Course, highlighted topics subject to independent study
Students. At the beginning of each topic, detailed methodical
species on the organization of independent work when
cooking for seminars and practical classes, are given
We are classes and literature.

When developing seminar and practical training plans
The authors sought closer to tie theoretical knowledge of age


and pedagogical psychology with general psychology and with practical
Teacher's activities.

The plans of seminars are allocated the most important
Methodological, Theoretical and Methodical Questions, Knowledge
which are mandatory for students. Without these knowledge
Students are not able to install unambiguous connections.
between external behavior and internal mental
baby and identify effective methods of impact on
His at different stages of training and education. For each topic
indicates literature for annotation or abstract
. The subjects of abstracts and reports are given, as well as approximate
Themes of exchange research. For abstracts and reports
Write literature. For course research students
under the guidance of the teacher independently determine the
Met research, select the necessary material, formula
Hypotheses and make up a work plan. As an example
Currency planning can be used methods
Independent development on the topic 5. All forms of independent work
students orient them on a deep, creative study of
Todologic and theoretical provisions revealing
lectic and materialistic understanding of the driving forces of the psychic
the development of the student, the conditions for the effective formation of it
Personality in the spirit of the ideals of the communist society.

A variety of forms and methods are presented in the workshop.
independent academic work of students who contribute to them
self-education and formation of pedagogical skills and
the words needed to study children and carry out
Nourishing work at different stages of their age development.

In the learning process at the Institute, students must learn
Diagnose the level of mental development of the child, to see
His features, find the most optimal conditions for
the formation of sustainable properties of the personality, conscious
The subject of educational activities. Therefore, great attention
In the workshop is given to methods of psychological study
schoolchildren, disclosing the age dynamics of his mental
development, as well as the study of the conditions of formation and comprehensive
His development of his personality. To this end, in the workshop allocated
Special topic - "Methods of age and pedagogical psyche
khology. "

The workshop includes psychological tasks, the decision
some will contribute to the formation of students
apply theoretical knowledge in pedagogical practice ",
A description of the methodology of psychological observation and analysis
lesson as the main form of educational activities
teachers; Currency studies are given. Conduct
Mendent research makes it possible to students deeper
assimilate psychological knowledge, contribute to the development of creative
The potential of the future teacher.

Depending on the faculty and conditions of the organization of the educational

fracessa by the first or absentee department, teachers can
Change the topic, as well as forms and methods of independent work
Students. So, at the full-time compartment, the topic can be changed
teak course research depending on its relevance,
practical significance and interest of the student. At absentee depression
the teacher can attract students to the psychological
Pedagogical analysis of their own experienced material, to
conducting research in their classes using special
Intelligence manuals for control work for correspondence branches.

Forms and methods of independent work of students and her
registration.
Forms of independent study of the course
Noah and pedagogical psychology can be diverse:

annotation and abstract literature; drafting
Rata or report; Perform coursework and diploma work.

Annotation of literature and listing of the main
issues considered by the author in one way or another. OCO-
Bo should allocate questions that are directly related to
Teacher or to the problem studied.

Auditimation of literature. The term "cons-
The pen "means a summary of some article, books,
stations, speech and t "d. There is an opinion that output
It is only necessary for the best memorization of the material (for example
measures, lectures). However, it is more important here.
appeals to the abstract for the purpose of deeper or new (under
new angle of view) understanding of the outstanding material
la. For this, the abstract should be brief, clear, complete and
accurate.

When noting, it is at first it is difficult to distract from
copyright text, abstract from insignificant details.
But as the author's thoughts are absorbed and their formulation
You are achieved by the required clarity and brief records.

The brevity and clarity of the presentation should not contradict the
fullness of completeness and accuracy, without which the abstract turns
Not as follows for the read book. To achieve greater
accuracy basic work provisions need to be recorded in
the wording of the author, pointing to the page that is set out
Recorded thought. Complete fullness is achieved due to
fixation of the main positions of work, playback of logic
author's outline.

In order to be able to subsequent work
With an abstract record your comments and reasoning, better
Total to outline only on one side of the sheet, leaving
The second empty.

Great mastery of output and work with the convey
Tami possessed K. Marx. He had a habit of periodically
look at your records, each time I remove new thought
Lee. The sample of the compilation of the abstract is "philosophical aunt
For the sake of "V. I. Lenin."

" Cm.: Lenin V. I. Philosophical notebooks // full. Cathedral cit. - T. 29.


Like any ability, abstract need to learn only
Over time, it has come, capable GY quickly and accurately choose from
Readable main content. Abstracts of beginners as
WILL, there are more voluminous, gap as a student can not always
Select the main problems. When noting is useful
The source studied to read at least twice. At first
The first reading is the overall impression of work, with the second
The main content is allocated, which is entered into the abstract.

Experienced reader in the notice of scientific work
It wines its main structural elements: hypothesis, theoretheg
"Geeskugsgi experimental testing of the hypothesis," Facts, empirical
And theoretical generalizations, the methodology of the experiment.

Hypothesis-assumption (based on knowledge available)
existence of any regularity, causes of phenomena or
Communication of several phenomena. For example, based on facts, speaking
about the development of the child's psyche in the learning process, one can
put (hypothesize) that older schoolchildren have
compared to adolescents are more developed by the ability to
free memorization, or, knowing that the psyche of man
develops and functions as a holistic education,
put forward the hypothesis about the relationship between speech and the level of
. Another example of a hypothesis: knowing that self-esteem as one
from the property properties is most intensively formed in adolescent
top aged and that self-esteem of the teenager is largely determined
the attitude of others can be assumed that
The teenager in one or another group is explained by the presence of
him needs in respecting his personality from the surroundings
. This need is satisfied in this group.

Theoretical test of hypothesis there is a comparison
Fans with existing in the scientific literature already proven
provisions, principles, during which the logical
The consistency of the hypothesis of these principles put forward.
In the process experimental testing of hypothesis her correct
or falsity is established by experimentally based on
Analysis of data obtained in the study.

Facts are called events, phenomena that research
Liu will be able to notice and fix. Therefore, one of the valuable
The qualities of the scientist is observation:
probication seemingly insignificant features
of the ages, the conditions for carrying out experience, etc. Fact in strictly scientific
understanding implies the possibility of reproducing the observation
MOS Events in new experience or other researcher.

Empirical generalization-combining objects of objects on
Only external signs based. Theoretical generalization
combining objects (phenomena) similar to the essential
Signs that determine the specifics of this phenomenon.

So, all student based on observation can be divided
Two groups are disciplined and undisciplined.
It will be an empirical generalization, as it is taken into account only

external characteristics of students. If we join
students depending on the properties of the hemceration, formed
Note ™ positive properties of the personality, the originality of the function
state, etc., highlighted groups will be the result
that theoregic generalization, as it explains here
on the undisciplinedness of some and disciplined others.

IN methodology The experiment includes task for subjects
(instruction, material for work, etc.), description of the conditions
carrying out experience (experiment group or individual,
duration, etc.), the composition and number of subjects determined
Dependent and independent variables.

Knowledge of the concepts of concepts helps literately (with scientific
points of view) read and outline scientific publications.
Any of the works can and need to be analyzed on the basis of the specified
concepts. In the abstract there must be reflected answers to
The following questions: "What is a hypothesis (or hypotheses)
the author of publications? "," What method this hypothe is checked
For? "," How convincing evidence? "," What
are facts? " and "G. d.

When noting, it is important to immediately find the values \u200b\u200bof
understandable terms using for this a variety of reference
Literature. For example:

Big Soviet Encyclopedia: at 30 tons / ch. ed.
A. P. Prokhorov.-3rd ed. - M.: Soviet Encyclopedia, 1969
-1978.

Philosophical Encyclopedic Dictionary / Ch. ed.
L. F. Ilyichev and Dru. - M.: Soviet Encyclopedia, 1983.

Pedagogical encyclopedia / ch. ed. I. A. Kairov.-M.:

Owls. Encyclopedia, 1964-1968.

Psychological Dictionary / Ed. V. V. Davydova, A.V.
Yield, B. F. Lomova and Dr.-M.: Pedagogy, 1983.

Brief psychological dictionary / under total. ed. A.V. Pet-
Rovsky, M. G. Yaroshevsky. - M.: Politicization, 1985.

Dictionary of foreign words / ed. A. G. Spirkin and others -
7th ed., Pererab.-M.: Russian, 1979.

Dictionary of the Russian language: in 4 tons / ch. ed. A. P. Evgeniev .-
2nd ed. and additional-m.: Russian, 1981-1984.

After visiting the sources it is useful to make car
Toteka abstract. Moreover, it is more convenient to have an alphabetic and system
Matter lists of abstracts. The first allows you to quickly find out
whether there is a summary of a particular work, and the second one-find out
What abstracts are on a particular problem. Therefore, on
Each abstract is filled with two cards: one goes to the alpha
Complete file, other-in systematic. In each card
Ke must specify the sequence number of the abstract, which allows
Lit quickly find it. This can be read about it in
Oral literature (Bibliographic description of works
Print: Instructive and methodical indication. - M.: State. biblio
Tek USSR. V. I. Lenin, 1978.- 198 p.).


Here we give the most basic information on the order, signs
punctuation and magnitude of letters (capital or lowercase) with bib-
Lieographic description of a book or article.

Let me remind you of some obvious signs ...

Waking up in the morning, you immediately begin to worry about what you will eat, what you need to do with what people you have to meet, and so on.

You are worried about the fact that other family members, friends, colleagues and strangers - may think about you. You pass by people on the street and, not even realizing this, worry about how they look in their eyes.

You are worried about your work duties (emails, meetings, documents, etc.) and liabilities in your personal life (family, food, accounts, and so on). You constantly think that you are not good enough in something, you live not as "need", but the moment when you are all satisfied, never comes.

You are worried about what you compare yourself with other people, about how much it remains behind, that you are waiting ahead - good or bad, about what you miss sight of the feeling of guilt for what you, As you think, do not become better, slimmer, stronger and smarter - about all those things that you in principle should not worry.

And time goes ...

But you are not alone in this. We are all sometimes visited in our own thoughts.

You must realize one thing: no matter what happens now in your life, everything will be fine, everything will work out.

We are constantly disturbing that something can go wrong, that other people will think about us, and so on and the like. In short, we are concentrated only on negative options. However, they constitute only a small part of all opportunities available to us. The chances that they will become a reality, are small. But even if your fears come true (let's say, someone will think bad about you), they are unlikely to significantly affect your life.

True lies in the fact that even if your fears become a reality, in 99 percent of cases everything will be fine.

Remember what you have worried about lately. After all, you probably have come to experience all this, is it not true? Yes, you were forced to solve the problems that have arisen, but your life has not collapsed; On the contrary, you learned useful lessons, which, ultimately, made you stronger.

If you always tell yourself that everything is fine, you will be able to gradually free yourself from unrest and anxiety and learn to prevent their appearance.

You can improve the quality of your thinking and life in general ...

Start your day calmly, with a sincere smile on your face, and only then proceed to all things ...

It is worth practicing.

What to do in difficult times when a real misfortune came to your life?

How to cope with it?

"Today, on your forty-seventh birthday, I reread the suicide note that I wrote exactly twenty years ago, two minutes before my carol girl entered the room and said she was pregnant. Her words were the only reason why I did not finish with me. Suddenly my life acquired the meaning, and I began to change it for the better. It was not easy, but now Carol is my wife with whom we have lived in a happy marriage for nineteen years. My daughter is twenty-one, she is studying at a medical university. She has two younger brothers. I reread my suicide note every year on my birthday - I am grateful for the fact that I was given a second chance for life. "

This is an excerpt from an email, which I received from the student of my course named Kevin. His words reminded me that sometimes you have to survive "inner death" to revive and become stronger and happier.

Circumstances and people will sometimes break you. But if you focus on the positive, open your heart of love and continue the way, despite everything, then you will certainly be able to collect yourself in parts, recover and become stronger and happier than before that.

I and Eindgel also had dealt with shocks in his life - we lost close people and best friends, experienced a financial crisis, collapse of business ideas and so on. We wrote about it over the years. But today let me remind you of some obvious signs that everything will be fine, even if you don't think so now ...

1. Changes occur right now. There is nothing definite. You are free.

Everything in life is temporary. Nothing lasts forever. Every moment gives us a new beginning and a new end. We get a second chance every second.

After the rain always shines the sun. After the night, the dawn always comes - we remind us every morning, but for some reason we refuse to notice this.

People from all over the world are constantly telling me with similar heart-catching stories about how their whole life has become an attempt to cope with one unfair event from the past. All the features that they are given, they burn on the fire with fiery obsession with the fact that it is impossible to change. The main thing is to realize that you are not obliged to be one of these people.

You are a product of your past, but you should not be in his captivity. You become a prisoner when clinging for what no longer. Show courage and tell the past "Goodbye!", And then life will reward you with a new hello! ". No matter how difficult for you, you can, you have to let go.

You have to let go and accept what you do not know how your life will go further. Learn to love and appreciate this freedom. Only when you hung up in the air, not knowing what to do next, you can open your wings and fly to the future. Yes, you do not know what is waiting for you, but it does not matter. It is important that you finally opened the wings that will only carry you back.

2. You have many amazing options.

As a rule, we strive to gain only a tiny range of life experience - good times, comfortable situations, experiences that make us happy. However, what we encounter every day in reality is completely different. Life gives us a wide range of a wide variety of experiences that cause anger and love, grief inside us, disappointment and delight, loneliness and confusion ... These emotions continuously replace each other. They are part of our reality - our collective state of humanity.

Question: How will you react to it?

You can rebel against injustice, because you can not get what you want. You may be angry with the whole world because of the pain and suffering that you encountered. You can try to resist and deny sadness, disappointment, embarrassment, and so on. Just remember that if you choose a negative, then this is ultimately, only aggravate the situation and lead to even greater despair.

A more efficient option is perhaps the complete adoption of reality and a wide range of life experiences with which you encountered. This includes all your emotions, all your takeoffs and falls, all your joyful and sad moments, as well as what is happening between them. Life is not only rainbow and french butterflies. It is complex and unpredictable.

To fully take a life - it means to discover unimaginable opportunities to be ready for unexpected changes, to show compassion and kindness in difficult times, to give love, whatever happens, and be grateful for the opportunity to experience it all.

It means not to expect that life will always be calm and measured, but to take a reality as it is, to take ourselves as you are, and strive for the better.

3. You can take a small step towards the best step at any time.

No need to build mountains in your head. No need to try to immediately conquer the whole world. When you are looking for instant pleasure (significant, rapid changes), your life becomes painful and disappointing. When you perceive every moment as an opportunity to make a small, useful investment in yourself, the result will not make yourself wait.

When everything collapsed, you can find many small things that need to be restored. When it seems that everything goes awry, even the most minor positive efforts are able to change the situation for the better. The times of large adversity is the times of great opportunities. There are no such problems with which you could not cope. When everything goes well, very easy to fall into the routine of complacency. Very easy to forget about how incredibly capable and resourceful you can be. Do not forget to make one small positive step after another to change your life for the better.

If you want to start right now, do not hesitate, throw yourself a challenge. Choose a certain sphere of your life that you would like to improve, and ...

Write down the specific details of your current situation. (What bothers you? What happened? What do you want to change?)

Write down the answer to the next question: what daily rituals will help resolve the current situation? (Be honest with you. Do you at the moment have any actions that contribute to solving the problems that you happened to encounter?)

Write down the specific details of your ideal situation. (What could make you happy? What does your current situation look like?)

Write your answer to the next question: what daily rituals will help you to be where you want to be? (Think over it. What small, daily steps do you have to do to move forward?)

The bottom line is that every moment of your life determines the following. This moment is a bridge between the reality where you are now, and the vision of where you want to be.

Reality is actually coming to you every second. The most amazing thing is that you can change it. You just have to decide what you want to do with it. The greatest of all errors are nothing to do anything because at the moment you are only capable of the smallest. And, again, much more effectively make small tags in the right direction than to make a huge jump to stumble, fall and never climb. The path to what you most want in your life, folds out of a thousand small steps that you do every day. Decide where you want to be, take the first step and stop. Only hard work and perseverance will help you achieve your goal.

\\ / Professional knowledge are excellent,

\\ / Lead the club about the meaning of life is that it depends on me,

The attitude is good;

I make a paper in terms of meaning. I can logically, it is important and not reading the non-existent instructions: refers to the director Take measures to compile the act of work performed and does not bring the job to your attention - then the enterprise also knows that we have fulfilled work, I will make a letter with the desire for internal The meaning of other no one will ever be a letter will tell me the instructions. Maybe better, conventionally speaking, I also read the instruction, but we do not specifically say, it will not be conditionally given anything if another cannot compile a letter and kicked the instruction.

Quality:

\\ / I appreciate the benefit, and not in the poor.

\\ / Sociability

The main thing is possible a small salary. But if the salary is small,then working day until 15.00. And if the working day until 16.00, then the salary is average. * I would like not far from home, to a unitary enterprise, in construction, but I will consider all offers. * Better ch. accountant if the work is up to 15.30.; And if not, you can both the second accountant to 15.30.

Wishes for work:

So that the salary has been paid.

Not far from my house st. Barvashenie Art. M. Mogilevskaya.

Not an evil chief. The main sincere calm is the working day of 6-7 hours - a simplified system.

First of all, construction, in the second place production, in the third place is wholesale.

Non-futured work. Long overhead, positions of materials, positions of goods.

* All areas of accounting 1C, all wiring, intercourse: documents (extracts, goods Sales, acts of third-party services), accounts Weretto Salda Vedomosti, Accounting Acts, Accounts Accounts Debt, Balance, Account Card.

Excellent knowledge of all areas of accounting. Province: balances. Reports: Taxes, Statistical, FSZN, DPA, Belgosstrakh. Computer in 1C_8 and manual overhead TN and TN, client-bank. I will take finances in your own hands, Initiative: Revenue, a payback for bank statements in 1c, debtors, all acts of verification!, Salary in 1C, Materials, Goods.

There are 1,2,3,4 - 5,6,7,8 in accounting tasks. Therefore, I can work by one accountant as always, and possibly two accountants - I am the chief accountant to 15-16.00 by $ 250 with taxes.

Reporting: Balance, Taxes, FSZN, Income, Statistics, DPU, Belgosstrakh, Russian Declaration

Salary, (wiring for zp 1c). And the statement of remnants by months.

Client-bank (tracking card tracking, currency obligation. Sale)



Acts of verification Implementation, implementation 90 62, invoice and acts of work performed in 1C, extracting consumable TNTN and TN in 1C and parish invoice for the purchase of materials of goods, warehouse, goods, reconciliation 62 accounts

Bank statement 1C, reconciliation 51 account

Acts of verification, acts of service of third-party organizations)

7. (Account closure)

8. (write-off materials)

9. Cassa consumables and (profitable cash orders), advance reports

OS, depreciation OS)

Firms for taxes Calculated and pack 1C)

Credit)

Debitors and lenders

Write-off gasoline on travel sheets)

Execution of travel.)

Expense reports)

Power of attorney)

Pension certificates.)

Priority tasks:

Reporting: Balance, Tax, FSZN, Income, Statistics, DPU, Belgosstrakh. Shipment Extracting invoice and TNT, see clause 4

The salary. And the statement of remnants by months.

Client-bank (tracking card tracking, currency obligation. Sale)

Acts of verification Implementation, TTN shipment, extract the invoice of the work-acts of work performed in 1C

Bank statements 1C payment by us

* Excellent computer knowledge. (Windows, Word, Excel, 1C Starting with 1C, Client Bank, DPU, Internet, Business Info (Consultant Plus); accounting tutorial, payer, etc.)

* Solved the difficult tasks of accounting of accounting, complex return calculations of VAT, I know the balance very well, politics only for shipment. If there is no money to pay the tax, it is better not to declare it, 45 bills do not exist, therefore 1c invoice 90 account, 1C is carried out only by documents: acts of completed Works, overhead, etc., hospital has changed, every year an accountant must attend courses, I know Excel well, complex wiring, closing accounts, currency Internet bank, VAT tax during overpayment, calculation - inverse calculations, proportional calculations, equation, et al., For example (x + 3% (x) Wholesale. Nadb.) + (X + 3% (x) Wholesale. Nadb.) * 20% VAT \u003d 100. Reinstalling windows, write-off materials at the average prices, debating revenue with increasing closing overhead, rechecking documents; The posting is sometimes skipped. The balance does not go to the bank, a difficult answer: you need to check the balance with the balance on the card file on the Card Self. * Write-off fuel on track leafs - the arrival of fuel to a specific date should close certain way sheets. Travel sheets should not close before the late overhead. I expected.



Primary tasks on the urgent meaning: reporting, revenue by payment payments, acts of verification costs and their payment, costs Paid (D90 K20 (44)) According to the acts of third-party services, the warehouse is how much the goods were and how much shipped, and perhaps and how much sold from shipped, salary, in 1C. All tasks are needed and should be kept in 1C. Now there is a client-bank, so all this can do one accountant, but it is necessary to theoretically mean that one accountant implies can keep all the accounting sites, but it may be necessary to imply an important priority task first. It is impossible to impose a semantic and primary task. On the company may be one accountant then so; and the statement, warehouse ( materials, prices with price change), salary, acts of service of third-party organizations, cash book, fixed assets, client bank, coming and write-off of gasoline in travel sheets and 1c on travel sheets, credit accounting, two firms - here you need to imply the big demands on the only accountant, or on one or two accountants you are counting. To keep accounting in 1C at least for myself.

I am pleased to visit the annual seminar

Consultant plus talking to what recent changes

Approach to God, and approach you;
Clean your hands, sinners, correct the hearts, duly
(Iac. 4: 8).

Who are two-sided? We are all duals. What does "dial-free" mean? This is the one who wants both two opposite things at the same time. We want God, but at the same time we want another life.

You objected to me: "We do not want another life!" Well, theoretically we do not want it. In practice, however, our cases talk about a friend. They show that we are captured.

The borders are, because the dual-hearted person suffers from spiritual schizophrenia and wants one, and does another. It's one thing - his thoughts, and the other - actions, and we are all. Holy Apostle Paul himself says: "I am an unfortunate man, because one decrease, but I do another. I want one, but another job. " "Poor I am a man! Who will get rid of me from this body of death? " (Rome. 7: 24). Who will save me from this misfortune that I wear in myself? I decide to pray, keep abstinence, fast, take a lot. How many good solutions do we take every day? However, we do not fulfill them, we are captured, we are wondering, like sheep on the rope, and they will be taught in another direction.

How many times even our own i Resists and tells us: "What are you going to do? Do not! Stop! " Our own i Protests, and we are like hypnotized and drunk - go there and cannot understand what is happening. Because we are captured, because it is a captivity from Satan. We do not have time to take over your own iAnd passions are mastered by us, because the devil is a dictator, he is a terrible tyrant who does not want our freedom, does not want us to be their face. These are the borders - to have two souls, two opinions, two decisions, two people, to be a dual person who lives the life of the church and at the same time makes a thousand other cases who are banging from her.

I remember such words: "A certain man lived, who went to church, prayed, cried, beat the bows and was all in the loss. This impression impressed me. This man - or, rather, this category of people, since he is not one of this, - at the moment when he cries, shifts and prays, can grab the knife against you, it is enough to provoke him with something. This is terrible schizophrenia. About Peter Great, who killed people and there is still something else, says that he was present every day on the Holy Liturgy. "

These are borders. You can not do it this way. This means that something goes wrong. How perhaps this split - didn't you leave any trace in you, is this gospel, life in the church?

Well, you say to me: "And who is not like that?" Unfortunately, we all are, and therefore the Holy Apostle Jacob speaks further:

"Crush, cry and sob; Laughing your way will turn into a cry, and joy - in sadness.
Please accept before God, and will raise you. "
(Iac. 4: 9-10).

The words of the Holy Apostle Surov. How to oppose all this man's torment, our i, our bobbies of the apostle advises to suffer suffering, cry and cry.

How does a Christian bearing? What are the suffering? Well, the post is such a suffering. Many say: "Ah-ah, I want to eat all the time during the post!" But we are in order to be hunger, and not to be satisfied. This makes the post of post - we feel hunger. What, my legs are shaking? Nothing, let them shake.

I do not say that it is necessary to extend and soak myself, but you do not need to be afraid of such suffering. Whether it's not true, you go to the all-sleeping vigil, and the legs are cut off - but this is also valuable. Be finished to die, as they say, but stand there.

Spiritual things can not be committed among comfort. The Christian must be a devotee, be a devotee in spirit, and to be a devotee means to undergo. Have you ever seen an athlete who became an athlete sitting in a chair? It's impossible. Constantly need to train, exercise, can be possible. So you will prefer. You must always be awake.

One day someone said:

- Gerona, your words hit me and forced to cry! They crushed me!

- But I said to him! To hurt you, I said it! To crush you! So that you put, I said it! Why did I tell you another? So you laughed? Why did I insult you before others? Why disgraced you? Damage! I did it not in ignorance! Not! Damage I did it to crush you. To break through your egoism. To cry. Of course, to cry. Why don't you cry? What, so what: To tell you, and you did not cry?

We need to work in spiritual exploits: when I'm singing, I do it to undergo deprivation; When wakeful, I do it to underwheat; When I give alms, I do it to lose something, I do not give alms, without understanding what I do. When I do something, I do it to exagge myself to feel it, sense.

How it characterizes us: What are we masochists, what do we like to mock yourself? Not! But sin, unfortunately, is identified with Sostroma. In sin there is pleasure, there is a pleasant feeling, not only sinful pleasure, but from any point of view - both spiritual, emotional, and in general. The heart declares us to sin because of his consulting, as it finds pleasure in it.

First, there is no spiritual pleasure, there is pain, work, malustration, must be hardworking. The opposite consideration is hardworking - it means: to love work and make business, feel fatigue. We must learn yourself. "I'm tired!" - You say. But you need to get tired. Why don't you get tired?

Gorky, if you committed spiritual feats and not tired. What does it mean? What are these feats then? What feat is a feat if he does not tire you? It would not be a feat.

Of course, there is a mystery - that hardworking for God in spiritual struggle contains a lot of joy and real spiritual pleasure, while the joy of the sinful is a time-in-time, and its bitterness and evil fruits are constant.

This is the fact that at first a person who wants to hurt spiritually, should go to hard work, he must work out, tiring himself, to commit and spiritual, and body work. For example, when the other scolds me, I do not answer him, is it not difficult? Do I really do not turn into a beast and I do not want to confuse him? However, I keep myself and do not do it. This is a work. And when another annoying, and I want to throw it out, but I hold back to not offend him, so as not to do with him badly? Someone comes and wants something absurd from me, and in spite of it tolerating it, I listen, it tires me, of course, but this is valuable.

They say that in marriage, in the family you get tired! But she is valuable - this fatigue, this everyday death in the family confrontation - for example, you can have a full-fledged family, where both the husband, and the wife, and the children, and, despite this, be lonely, feel that you do not understand, not Take - not because it is bad, but because everyone lives in its own world. This is a big job, great struggle, great malustration.

Do you know that peace is heavier than bodily? Provide body, awake, tired, fast and so on - this includes joy, has, so to speak, a direct result, and mental work is something much more difficult. Be in a certain place and every day feel bitterness, disappointment, rejection, living in the same house with my husband, and that he rejects you every day so that the wife rejects you, the children did not take you, did not count with you so that they were not interested You or not you so that they do not recognize any of what you do. Well, is it not a askew? It . It is much more difficult to other things. It is better to go to dig on the field all day than that another rejects you and eat you like your tongue. One thousand times is preferable to break the stones than that the other breaks you with the quarrels and inspired nerves.

Consequently, the arscement of a multilateral and covers the entire person. Ascape for us, living mostly in the world, is not so much in bodily matters - our torment is not so much body, because we cannot do a lot in the world. Well, well, we will fast, let's go to the all-night vigil, pray in the evening, albeit tired. Okay. But we cannot do more than that - we will miss the strength. But every day tolerate ... What is there to tell a person?

Scary, as far as the man can tire. You know, there are such people who can tire you, talk five minutes and break you, and you will need a whole day to come to yourself. And the other will tell you all day, but does not tire you. I do not know, is there a matter in a person? He will tell you just a few words, and you are broken, while the holy people calm you.

Or here's another situation :, our colleagues or the environment in which we live. You would be better left alone in the mountains than to be with severe people. Yes, it is a torment - to endure the sake of love Christ and stay there. This is really a feat, torment.

What happens, however? Through this torment, grief and crying is born to the consolation of God. A person who does not suffer is not comforting by God. This is the law. Do you want God to comfort you? If you find a comfort in human things, God will not comfort you. If you find a comfort in everything around you, do not expect comfort from God. God will comfort people who really suffered, were offended, despicable, cured.

You will tell me: "Well, but if I'm not so good and everything is fine for me, what to do?" If you are fine and you do not need to make efforts and works, you must make them on your own will. If, regardless of you, life is well, seeking yourself the works yourself. We have additional struggle. Yes, because a person is escaped by or voluntary works when you are slowing down your will of the posts, all sorts of exploits, as we said now, or the works forced.

I'm not saying that the husband will fight every day - he does it. Your torment is a forced work, you do not want it, you are not the reason for him, but he is. Well, so please advantage of what is, it is good to pay him good. Or you have some kind of disease, some kind of problem, the reason for which is not in you, it appears herself. This is a convenient opportunity, this is a feat that you can raise and pay good.

Consequently, if you have forced labor, you need to use them. God will comfort you. If you do not have forced works and everything is fine with you, then you have to incur voluntary work, impose on a spiritual ascetic.

Do you remember that God said rich? "Chado, remember that you have already enjoyed in your life. When you were alive, everything was fine; What did you want, all you had; You never experienced a shortage, no one ever said nothing against you. You have already enjoyed the benefits in your life. And now there is nothing. " While the other, Lazar, survived evil, so he was comforted.

And indeed, a person who tasted the wing of the consolation, understands that it is not comparable to the human consolation. Not comparable. Absolutely with nothing.

One woman was a very spiritual man, she had a really spiritual life, and not just emotions and fake feelings. And her husband was really tyrant, villain. You can not imagine what flour he hurt her. For many years she demolished everything from him. Rugan, screams, Hulu, that only your mind can imagine. And the worst thing is that the children rose against her, and although she sacrificed her every day for them, every day she cheated a bitter bowl of ungratefulness, barbarism. The children became bad, but they had a holy mother.

Whatever it was, but one day the woman reached the limit of his strength and said:

- God, I can no longer withstand!

Her struck very hard, and her husband did not pay attention to her. What was next? Since she was a spiritual person, she had such a consolation from God, which constantly prayed in his heart, and God consoled her extremely a lot. Among the terrible torment and difficulties, she felt a great consolation from God. In the case of it, we really speak about the least saints, and not about something ordinary. However, one day she is like a person - or in God's relatives - said:

- I can not anymore! I do not stand! God, I can't!

The husband humiliated her and bodily, and soulful: he did not give her to go to church, coming up, was like a demon.

Having reached the limit of patience, once at night she prayed so - and the husband on that day drove her out of the room for told him that he wanted to go to church:

- A, do you want to go to church? Then I went out!

Then she heard the voice of God in herself: "Well, I will take this temptation to you so that you have a world."

From the next day, her husband gradually began to be angry and fifteen days later became like a lamb. And what happened? Prayer has gradually subsided, and she lost her. The husband told her:

- Do you want to go to church? Good, go! Do you want to buy something and something to file alms? Take and distribute!

She said:

- Thank God! What I was waiting for, though in 25 years!

Yes, it came, but she lost God. God did not consult her as before. She lost prayers, warmth, which she had previously had, was not a flame that she had. "Oh, what does it happen!" - And it covered the opposite: despair. And now? What will happen now? In other words, if there is a consolation from her husband, then lose consolation from God? Therefore, she began to pray:

- My God, what should we do now?

But what to talk to her? "Make my husband of the beast?" Can't she say so. And what to say? Whatever it was, she prayed, prayed, after that they came other temptations and so on, and she reopened himself.

The same did the saints. Why did they choose remote places where there is no human consolation? Because they knew the experience that the more human consolation, the less comfort from God.

Zechariah's father told me about the elder sofronia that he used to say:

- When I lived in the desert and I had one milk package for my needs, I told myself: "One package of milk is enough for three to four days, for one week. What needs to be done to get another package? Go buy. " Is this not a simple logic? And the logic of the desert says the other: "Do you want to acquire two packages of milk? Give the package you have, and two will come. " In other words, that I had two milk packages, I gave one, and God sent me two. I gave two, and God sent me four. Why? Because there is no human aid, you are not in the world.

I will never forget how I lived in my youth in Kapsal, on, - there is a desert, there are snow - especially in winter we all turned out to be blocked: it was impossible to go to spend another. In the mountains, in the thickets, for 10-15 days you could not pass to see the neighbor. When I say "Neighbor", I mean some brother living at a huge distance from you. He, however, is your neighbor, because you see from from afar.

Once we took some things and attributed them to one older who lived down us. He lived alone. It is human - to attribute him something: some vegetable oil, other things.

- Gerona, we brought you something!

- Prematurely grateful! Pandure thanks to your older!

He postpones part of the brought.

- Yes, it's all for you!

- No no! This is enough for today!

- Well, well, and tomorrow?

- Well, yu, tomorrow! God knows! No need for tomorrow!

And where did he dwell? Not in the city, near Grocery, but in the desert. Nowhere to have it tomorrow. But since he had no human aid, he really had God's help.

This is true - in my small experience I tell you - that as soon as something is impossible, then God intervenes. However, the fact that this happens when a person comes to the extreme limit of his forces, the Dototh, that he can no longer. When you get a dotood, God there.

However, it is necessary to reach the dotood, to withstand the path to the extreme limit, do not fall into the foolishness and not say: "No! Enough! " - And retreat backwards. We must walk there, you need to have this power, wait and believe that God is there. And if you start to do another, then you will deceive the comfort of God.

Do you know that a person can lose consolation from God and because of the most ordinary things for which the hope is entrusted? .. Because God says that Srebolubie is a sin that a lot of everything else is a sin. What is the essence? The bottom line is that it is painting our heart. Have money not sin - If I had money, if we were millionaires ... And I tell you what I would like to become a millionaire, it's not something bad - to have money, but they should not choke your heart.

If you are able to stay free and correctly manage them, then you can easily enter the paradise. This is the key that opens the paradise, but the same key opens and hell. If you do not be attentive, with the same key you will enter the next door. The question is that the human heart is not disturbed, it doesn't matter what: man, money, human glory, position and anything. Let it not paint your heart so that it remains with God.

And again an example from the monastic life. On the Holy Mount had different thieves that were robbed, robbed monks and even mocked them. We had similar stories. So, on the holy grief they said that there is thieves. What do we do? It is easiest to rob a monk: he is alone in the mountains.

And now a monk took and hung a good castle on the door of his cell ... But let's first tell you another story.

There was one old man, heir to Haji George. They came to rob him. He had vintage icons in the cell. Tied his arms, legs, mouth, so as not to shout. And he said to them:

"I ask you: before you connect me, take me to church, and tie me there."

- So that I am in the temple. And open me a book when you connect me so that I read the service until morning, I did not miss her!

They tied him, and he read so. Then the neighbors found him:

- Nothing wrong! Although they were tied up, but I read service! They just took things and gone.

But I'll be back to my example. Our neighbor went and bought a hanging castle:

- Do not open it! Let them come: nothing will happen to them!

Yes, but when in the evening he began to pray, God was not with him. He lost prayer. Why? God told him:

- Your hope for a castle or for me? Who guards your abdicate? Castle or me?

He had already felt herself outlined, which removed the castle and put himself with the rule of 40 days to sleep with unlocked doors. Although, of course, he scared the slightest noise and jumped off the bed.

The icon of the Blessed Virgin Mary came to the Iversky Monastery, and the St. Gabriel Iversky, going on the sea, went and took the icon, took it to the monastery, the fathers put it in the Cathedral Temple, but they found in the monastic gate in the morning. Lord have mercy! Who took her? Okay, they took her back to the temple again, but she was at the gate on another morning. Again, put it in the temple, and again found in the gate. Locked the temple. Then the Most Holy Mother of God appeared to Igumen and said:

- Gerona, I will guard you, and not you!

Since then, the icon of the Blessed Virgin is standing at the monastery gate. Of course, the monks closed the gate from the worship, put the other and erected the chapel, where the icon is, which is because the goalkeeper is called, that is, the Holy Virgin, standing at the gate. Because this God guards us, and not we ...

Where there is no human: human consolations, human strength, God there.

God is our goal. When we are all right and there are many benefits, it is necessary to thank God for what we have, glorify it for all the benefits that we have, but not forget about the hardworking, voluntary diligence in Askise - and bodily and spiritual, Any ascetic, leading to hard work in us, because it will free us from passion and sin ...

Everything will be fine, the main thing to believe!

Stop spend time on anxiety!

Smile! Everything will be alright, I've asked.

Everything will be fine, because it can not be different!

Everything will be fine wherever you go!

Everything will be not just good, but much better! Be sure! Don `t doubt!

As Spring comes in winter, so joy will follow sadness. Everything will be fine!

Man is a product of his thoughts. For it becomes what he thinks most of the time!

Everything will be fine! Believe in yourself and you try!

Wherever you are, tell me: since I am here, it means everything will be fine!

Sometimes, with some strange ways in life everything is being established by itself!

Everything will be fine: theoretically ... logically ... deductive ... Yes, on any!

Let it be bad now, but then everything will be fine. It is just necessary to survive, wait, and then all get better. Be sure!

Everything will be fine! Live actively, thoughts positively!

If you wake up with the idea that something good will happen today and it will be.

And you know - it will still be. The southern wind will still come and spring still pumps and the memory turns over.

Never regret anything - everything for the better!

When a person seems to be something awry, something wonderful in his life is trying to enter his life.

Believe, everything will come true! Everything will be awesome!

The sun is over the clouds. Yes! Everything will be fine!!! No matter what...

To see the rainbow - you need to survive the rain! Everything will be fine!

If you are very bad, find someone worse and help him. You will be much better!

If you are offended, use the magic rule of the three P: understand, forgive, bury.

Never take revenge on anyone. All will be! We are good, and they have both deserved!

Believe me, everyone will go away ... misfortunes also get tired, and tomorrow will be happy!

The train follows the utmost station "Success" with all stops: failure, apathy, betrayal, mistakes, actions ... Success.

Everything will be the way! It passes everything ... it will pass and this ... Everything will be ho-ro!

Happiness is when you do not need to lie, what's good for you.

A strong person is not the one that is fine. This is the one that all is well in spite of everything. You are stronger than you think!

All that happens - happens on time. This is the best of what could be!

The end of something bad is always the beginning of something good.

Do not be sad ... Everything will be fine, life is full of pleasant moments!

Do not burn and do not be sad! All the best ahead!

At the end everything will be fine. If still not good, this is not the end.

Everything will be the way you dream, only wait. Remember, sugar at the bottom.

No eclipse lasts forever. Do not fall in spirit, everything will be fine!

Sun in the sky is good, but the sun is more important in the soul. Take care of your sun!

Look at your own problems at a different angle! Relax, everything will be fine!

Everything will be fine! And even yesterday's mistakes will benefit you!

I have found a mood to be crazy. Yesterday everything was fine, and today - better!

Cases for today: get up in front of the mirror, straighten your shoulders, raise your head, smile and tell yourself: "Everything will be fine!"

Go to the "settings" of the soul, open the "Status" folder, put a tick on "happy" and forget the password!

Everything will be fine, because it does not suit me badly!

Everything will be fine, because I want it so and so it should be!

It is important to have a person next to him who will hug and say: everything will be fine. And that's you yourself!

Nobody will be fine next to you while you are poorly alone with yourself.

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